Gifts are given for many
reasons especially on occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, holidays,
housewarmings and work anniversaries. Some are given as a thank-you, some to
please sweethearts, and some are given to motivate kids!
Whatever be the reason,
when we give someone a gift, we wait to see the reaction of the receiver when
he opens the gift. We wait for that word that comes from them – that word
“wow.”
This is all what gifts are
about. The “wow” that is heard and this word is what pleases us. That smile on
the receiver’s face is worth all the trouble taken, and the money spent on it.
Here are some tips on how to choose
gifts for your loved ones.
Observe their Likes and Dislikes
This goes a long way in
helping you select a gift that your loved one will like. Your friend may have
just about everything, but would have mentioned at some point of time, his or
her craving. It helps to remember these things. Yes, it is difficult to
remember, but do make a mental note of it. When you see something like it, buy
it, even if it means keeping it for months for that one special occasion!
Know your Friend's Interest
If you are unable to peg
the likes and dislikes, you could dwell on your friend’s interests. If he or
she has a pet, gifting a simple bow tie for her dog will make her happy. If she
is interested in reading fiction, getting her the latest novel would make an
ideal gift.
Spend Some Time
Do not buy gifts in a
hurry. Spend some time pondering over the display. Sometimes what YOU like may
not be appreciated by the receiver. For example, if you see a painting that you
would like to gift, do ponder over the color of the receiver’s wall and whether
the chosen gift would look good on your friend’s wall. Spending some time for
your loved one is worth it.
Remember, Your Gifts Communicate
Yes, the gifts you give are
a powerful communication tool. They say a lot of things, and sometimes things
that you may not even have dreamt of. Some gifts communicate distance, some
reveal intimacy. They have the ability to say “I love your creativity”, or
“Take a good look at yourself.” So, choose something that does not communicate
anything insulting.
Anthropologists say that givers are the happiest people when
they spend some time dwelling their thoughts on the people they love.
Recipients are the happiest people when they receive a gift they wanted. So
thoughtfulness always pays.
Finally, here is a quote
from Vera Nazarian, from ‘The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration’,
“Gift giving is a true art.
1. You need to understand the person to whom you intend to give the gift.
2. You need to know what they truly want.
3. You must be able to give it to them.
Anything less is a symptom of varying degrees, on your part, of ignorance, distance, or insult.
But if you cannot afford the right gift, telling the person what you would do if you could, justifies everything—as you present that not-so-perfect substitute.”
1. You need to understand the person to whom you intend to give the gift.
2. You need to know what they truly want.
3. You must be able to give it to them.
Anything less is a symptom of varying degrees, on your part, of ignorance, distance, or insult.
But if you cannot afford the right gift, telling the person what you would do if you could, justifies everything—as you present that not-so-perfect substitute.”
